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Getting an ex boyfriend back is a bit of a game that requires delicate precision in some areas and aggressive all-or-nothing approaches in others. Perhaps the most delicate time is what could be called “first contact.” It is the first text to get your ex boyfriend back. Neither party has spoken for a while. It’s time to take the plunge.
Of course, there are quite a few things to be mindful of when you text your ex back for the first time. Below is a guide to making that transition from not talking at all to talking a whole lot more.
The Four-Week Freeze Before Texting
So, a girl should take four weeks off. In other words, have no contact with him or his friends for about a month. This is essential. It’s a time to look at the big picture, ask the right questions, and to look over if this thing is worth fighting for. It’s the first step to making sure the first text lands with a punch and not a whisper.
The First Text Back
What should that first text be to win your ex back? The biggest mistake any girl makes is creating a generic and bland message. What does he want to know after weeks of not talking? The answer should not be a single "hi." The first text back should be adventurous and exciting. It should actually address what the girl has been doing for the past few weeks to give him an idea of what he is missing out on. Messages include:
“Hey I just went parasailing. Remember us talking about that? It was a great time."
“Our first trip to California was amazing. Would you ever want to go back?”
“I’m at our favorite restaurant. Do you remember what it is?”
"I saw your friend Charlie the other day. He says you are skating again? I miss that."
The above messages are flirty without being obnoxious. They also address the past with the ex that he can recollect. It’s these little reminders that act as great reintroductions to the type of relationship he once had.
Generic messages offer little substance and no excitement. A message with a past event and a reflection on that event will remind him of those great times and return him back to the radar. It's a reminder of something valued, and it will be just the thing to get your ex boyfriend back.
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